We want you to have a fun, respectful, and safe experience. This page explains simple, practical steps you can take to protect yourself—online and in person—and how to get help if something doesn’t feel right.
18+ only. You must be at least 18 to use this service. Impersonation, AI-generated faces, deepfakes, and stolen photos are not allowed.
Core Principles
- Protect your privacy. Keep your last name, exact address, workplace, daily routines, and financial details private.
- Move at your pace. Real connections don’t require pressure, urgency, or secrecy.
- Verify early. A quick video call or voice note can save you time and risk.
- Keep money out of it. Love doesn’t need loans, gift cards, GCash/PayPal/Zelle, crypto, or “fees.”
- Meet publicly. First meets should be in well-lit, public places—tell a friend and control your own transport.
- Report and block. If someone breaks the rules or feels unsafe, use the in-app tools and let us know.
Before You Match
- Use recent, clear photos of yourself (no minors, no explicit content).
- Avoid photos that expose home location (street signs, condo/plate numbers, school badges).
- Create a unique email and strong, unique password; turn on 2-factor authentication if available.
While Chatting
- Keep conversations in-app until you feel comfortable.
- Be careful with links and files; don’t download unknown attachments.
- If the vibe shifts to pressure, guilt, love-bombing, or secrecy, slow down or step away.
- Verify identity before getting more personal: ask for a quick video call, or a selfie doing a simple gesture (today’s date on paper).
Red Flags & Common Scams
Watch out for patterns like these: